Valentine’s Day weddings can be a bit… risky. They’ve got a reputation for leaning very hard into hearts, clichés, and things that feel more novelty than timeless. But when they’re done properly? They can be ridiculously romantic, stylish, and honestly quite grown-up.
This photoshoot was our take on what a Valentine’s Day wedding can look like when you lean into the Valentine’s theme, but keeping it modern and intimate.
The inspiration came from colour, texture, and atmosphere. Soft pinks layered with deeper reds, warm candlelight everywhere, and styling choices that felt bold but still relaxed. If you’re looking for Valentine’s Day wedding ideas that feel modern, elevated, and not at all cheesy, there’s plenty here you could steal for your own day.

Valentine’s Day Wedding Theme Ideas
The whole look of this shoot was built around contrast. Soft pink tones were paired with deeper reds to give everything a bit more depth, while clean backdrops and simple materials stopped it from feeling overwhelming.
We leant into those Valentine’s Day hearts REAL hard. But when pairing it with coordinated stationery, coloured candles, layered place settings, and florals that felt loose but intentional, it all worked together to create a really cohesive atmosphere. These Valentine’s Day wedding theme ideas are designed to translate beautifully to a real wedding – not just something that looks good for photos.


Colour Palette and Styling Choices
The colour palette moved between blush, rose, and richer red tones, all anchored by neutral surfaces so the details could really stand out. It meant the overall look stayed romantic without feeling overpowering or too “done”.
Texture did a lot of the heavy lifting here. Soft fabrics, curved stationery shapes, and layered elements added interest without stealing the show. It’s a good reminder that for a Valentine’s Day wedding, a consistent palette and thoughtful material choices usually have far more impact than trying to make everything a statement.

Valentine’s Day Wedding Decor Ideas That Actually Feel Chic
This shoot was all about showing that Valentine wedding decor can feel intentional, elevated, and modern – not novelty-led, even while embracing those red hearts. The decor was designed to feel immersive without being loud, using colour and light to set the mood rather than obvious themed details.
Tablescape Styling and Valentine Wedding Decor Ideas

The tablescape is where the Valentine’s Day styling really came into its own. Long tables were styled with soft linens, coloured glassware, and layered place settings that felt romantic without being fussy or overworked.
Low floral arrangements added texture and colour while still keeping things practical (no shouting across centrepieces), and personalised favours like the drink markers helped everything feel thoughtful and intentional. Fun elements like the lettered candles and heart-shaped crockery gave the decor a lighthearted mood to stop things feeling quite so themed. These Valentine’s Day wedding decor ideas show how a table can feel intimate and expressive without leaning into obvious Valentine tropes.


Valentine’s Day Wedding Cake Ideas
The cake followed the same design language as the rest of the shoot – soft tones, beautiful on-trend piping, and a romantic feel that didn’t scream for attention despite being heart-shaped and pink and red. It felt like a natural extension of the tablescape rather than a separate moment. Texture, thoughtful detailing, and how it’s styled within the space can make it feel really special while still fitting seamlessly into the day as a whole.

Bringing It All Together
We wanted to show that a Valentine’s Day wedding can be romantic, modern, and visually cohesive, even if you’re embracing those gorgeous cliche hearts. By focusing on colour, texture, and atmosphere, the result feels elevated – and, most importantly, achievable for real weddings. We were also lucky enough to have this shoot featured in Green Wedding Shoes!
If you’d like to see more of my work, you can explore my portfolio, take a look at my wedding packages, and get in touch to chat about your plans.
Venue: RSA House
Event design: Style It Events
Florals: Gray & Greenery
Wedding dress: Marie Chandler Bridal
Hairpiece: Rebecca Anne Designs (veil and bow)
HMUA: Mehwish Saqib Hair & Makeup
Groom attire: Boohoo Man
Videography: Leesha Williams Photography
Stationery: Rock Paper Cloud
Cake: Bronya
Music: Lisa Agnelli
Officiant: India Bel Ceremonies
Candles: Pepper Loves Candles
Napkins + ribbons: The Embroidered Napkin Co
Banner: Daydreamer Creative Studio
Balloons: Blown Away Events
Gin: Mermaid Gin
Models :Praya and Tom from Extreme Talent

While you're here...
I'm Jodie! An alternative and vibrant wedding photographer based in Berkshire.
I'm a crazy cat lady, indie music lover and English Breakfast Tea obsessionist.
When it comes to weddings I love love love all things untraditional. When couples do exactly what they want for their big day - those are my favourites to shoot.
I've shot over 100 weddings in the last few years, so I've learned a trick or two that I've been compiling in this blig!